Posted on October 9, 2017
“Every Story is a Love Story”
My first experience of opera singing was at Restaurant Bel Canto in Paris, France. During the wonderful dining experience, we were serenaded by the staff who are trained opera singers. The Bel Canto experience is truly a special one, and since then it was on my bucket list to watch opera performance.
As I traveled to Italy during Verona Opera Festival 2017, I got the opportunity to watch the amazing opera productions at the biggest open-air theatre in the world – Arena di Verona. Attending the performance in the best preserved Roman amphitheater in Italy, which was built in the first century, was a surreal experience. It was an unforgettable evening.
The Arena has hosted many concerts and performances of the most notable opera singers, such as Luciano Pavarotti, Giuseppe Di Stefano and Andrea Bocelli, and international rock and pop singers and bands such as Pink Floyd, Paul McCartney, Rod Stewart and Radiohead. The Arena di Verona is also the romantic setting for “Intimissimi on Ice”, an international highly acclaimed spectacular show, which combines great music, fashion, and skating.
During my visit, I chose “Aida”, a timeless love story based on the classical Verdi production, which is known for its extravagant stage productions and amazing musical arrangements. Aida is an opera in four acts with breaks in between and the show lasted more than four hours. There were two large screens that provide subtitles in English. The performance was heartfelt, the musical was in full glory, with romance, war, intrigue, love, betrayal, guilt, power, and religion.
Aida is a story about an ancient love triangle. The character focused on the enslaved Nubian princess, Aida, the Egyptian Captain, Radames, and the Egyptian princess, Amneris. I was deeply absorbed in the magnificent play, and at the end of it, there was a big lump in my throat and I felt like crying. Life can be unfair sometimes.
Aida: “If you don’t like your fate, change it. You are your own master. There are no shackles on you.”
As their forbidden love grown deeper, Aida and Radames chose to renounce the world. They believe that only death will unite them forever and make their love immortal.
Aida & Radames: “I’m so tired of all we’re going through. I don’t want to love like that. I just wanna be with you. Now and forever, peaceful, true.”
Love stories are reflections of our own experience and expectations from life. Whilst watching this play, my mind visualized myself as the main characters, how they feel and think. I imagined myself as Aida, put myself in the shoes of Radames, and most importantly, my feelings of Princess Amneris.
I told Nicky that Amneris has the biggest heart. She came off as a shallow ‘bimbo‘ when in fact she is a sweet, smart and compassionate person. She is willing to do anything for Radames, even to share her love with Aida, her favorite slave, whom she considered as her closest friend and sister. In my opinion, Amneris felt dejected and was the most hurt.
Amneris: “Why do I want him still? Why, when there’s nothing there?
How to go on with the rest of my life to pretend I don’t care?”
Sometimes we cannot understand love. Love can drive a person insane. There is always a taunting feeling inside us that things will never be perfect. At some point, we have to realize that some people can stay in our heart, but not in our life. And we get hope from Aida that we will find our perfect match – someone out there who will love us eternally.
Cheapest tickets on the stone steps cost €22 and the most expensive seats are €208. I bought the cheapest tickets online which was supposedly located facing the stage. But as we arrived late, the gate has closed. We were directed to another location at the side which was not a bad spot. Anyway, the arena was built in the first century and for almost 400 years gladiators fought here and entertained the people. So no matter where you sit, it feels like stepping back in time.
Posted on July 21, 2017
Continuation from Nicola’s Journey Back to Italy – Hanoi, Vietnam
Almost ten years ago, I spent two weeks traveling around northwest India, from Mumbai to Delhi, and Agra. Back from the trip, I swore I’d never go back. But here I am, again… Maybe it was because of Nicky’s requests. Or maybe India is really intriguing.
Being a first timer in India, Nicky wanted to explore everything. We hired a Tuk-Tuk driver who drove us around for the next few days.
Agra Red Fort is a UNESCO World Heritage site. It was originally built with the brick by the Hindus but when it was captured by the Islamic Mughals, they rebuilt it with red sandstone. The place is huge and we spent hours admiring the architecture. From the terraces, we can see the beautiful view of Taj Mahal in a distance.
In the late afternoon, our Tuk Tuk driver, Jaabar, drove us to Mehtab Bagh, an old garden complex, which is located across the river of Taj Mahal. He told us that we can see the spectacular view of the sunset over Taj Mahal. He was right, this is the ultimate Taj Mahal viewing spot.
This garden is considered as a secret spot as we didn’t find many other foreign tourists. There were a few domestic travelers wandered through this beautiful garden, and workers tending the sprawling vegetation. We were stopped by a group of locals who wanted to take pictures with me. Sorry, Nicky. I’m the popular one.
On the way to Jaipur, we stopped at Fatehpur Sikri. Our Driver contacted his friend to pick us up at the entrance. At that moment, I was thinking, “Well, well… Another ‘rip off tourist’ bonanza”. But I was surprised as he was worth the money. We did not have to pay the entrance fees which was about Rs500 each, he was knowledgeable, and he protected us from the group of hostile beggars and sellers.
Fatehpur Sikri was the capital of the Mughal Empire from 1571 to 1585. It was lovely to learn how three of Akbar’s wives from different religion lived together in harmony. Muslim, Hindu and Christian architectural elements were blended beautifully.
Fatehpur Sikri is worth a visit, but I think what was off-putting is the number and aggressiveness of beggars and sellers. Nicky was so annoyed with one marble seller, who followed us around and said mean things to him for not buying the overpriced souvenirs.
The guide then brought us to the blessings session near Dargah of Sheikh Salim Chisti. We were asked to pay for the scarves, flowers, and strings to drape onto the tomb and tie the string for wishes. The ‘holy’ guy said that the money would be given to the poor. Three wishes, he said. “One for yourself, one for your special someone, and one for anyone”. He even showed the picture of Katrina Kaif, the Bollywood actress that came to seek blessings. He asked for Rs1,000 each and Nicky and I looked at each other. To me, a charity must be done willingly, it is our choice rather than being forced into it.
Our next stop was the Abhaneri Chand Baori, where we find one of the world’s largest step-wells. This place was constructed around one thousand years ago to improve the water level of the whole region. I first saw this amazing architecture on ‘The Amazing Race’ (Australia) program and was impressed with the artistic design of steps. This place is a definite work of art which is worth visiting.
We arrived Jaipur, also known as the Pink City, in the evening and had our dinner at Peacock Rooftop restaurant. It was Nicky’s birthday and I had made a reservation earlier prior to our visit. Nicky was surprised to read the “menu” which was my present for him (a self-made photo book). I swear I saw water in his eyes.
The next morning, we had the Tuk Tuk driver from last night waiting for us. Nicky had ‘promised’ him that we will engage his service for sightseeing. I was not happy. For the same amount of money, why would we take a Tuk Tuk instead of a car? It was scorching hot out there, and Amber fort was quite a distance. He asked for Rs800 which was a lot.
City Palace was constructed by the Maharaja of Jaipur and is a huge complex of exquisite’s palaces, gardens, and courtyards. It has a royal collection of textiles, arts, and the armors. The architecture is marvelous and the complex is beautiful, but we didn’t find this place that interesting. It lacks charm.
Amber Fort is in Amer town of Jaipur and is one place we enjoyed the most in Jaipur. The beauty of this place is immaculate; the exterior is a wonderful example of ancient Indian architecture and the interior is artistic and filled with loads of charm and intricate details. We reached Amber Fort quite late, and have to leave after just less than two hours wandering around.
On the way to the Monkey Temple, we stopped to take panoramic snapshots of the Jal Mahal Lake Palace located in the middle of the Man Sagar Lake. The scenery was beautiful, and the lake so calm. We would have stayed longer if not because of the heat.
At the entrance of the Monkey Temple, we were hassled by a man to take him as a guide, and buy peanuts from him. It was not a long walk to the temple but he said that we needed protection from the monkeys. We knew this was untrue, but were just too tired to argue.
The trip started with a steep walk to the top of the hill. The monkeys can be quite amusing and friendly but some misbehaved as they scrambled for food. After less than fifteen minutes, we reached the top of the hill. The temple was old and filthy, which somehow creates a certain sense of charm.
While waiting for the sunsets, Nicky asked about the Sadhu. The guide told him that he can call one to give blessings to us. It will take him about thirty minutes to arrive, and we needed to give a large sum of money. I smiled.
We were so impressed with Amber Fort and the surrounding area, so the next day, we went back to the town.
Amer village is an ancient village with almost thousand years of history. There were plenty of historical temples and other monuments around. The village is authentic and charming. The shops were colorful and the people are genuinely nice.
We were admiring India’s legendary Royal Enfield motorcycle that was parked at one of the house. The handsome young owner, Vijay, approached us. He was so kind enough to ask if we need any help. He showed us around the area despite the need to go to work. The temple ruins he showed us were both mysterious and beautiful.
On the way back, we managed to stop at Johri Bazaar, a central market place where we can find almost everything. Situated nearby the market is the Hawa Mahal, which was built in 1799 for the ladies of the royal court. This iconic beautiful building is also known as “The Palace of the Winds”.
I don’t know if I’ve ever had a more difficult time summing up my travel experience. I was horrified by the poverty, filth, and tourist scams, but Nicky loves the whole adventure. Nicky and I witnessed beautiful sacred moments in Taj Mahal, Fatehpur Sikri, and Jaipur, but then we also witnessed profane moments.
The visit to Amer village in Jaipur was the most memorable one for me. I got to see real hospitality. The villagers were friendly and helpful, and never demanded a fee of us entering the mosque, temples and other interesting sites. We were not even charged for taking photographs. It makes one wanted to give more to the community. If I could change my itinerary, I would stay at Amer village and spend more time at Amber Fort.
For Nicky, as much as he adores Taj Mahal, he loves Fatehpur Sikri the most. The architecture of the building has its own unique character, and he also loves the locals visiting the place. People were warm, friendly, chatty and full of smiles. A big happy family offered us snacks which were delicious.
India was crowded and humid. It was impossible to walk down the street without beggars and gauntlet of traders running after you. The traffic was terrible. The Tuk Tuk drivers weaved in and out so recklessly, waiting for an accident to happen. And most places were sadly, too dirty. The cow is worshiped in India, but I sighed watching the cows and pigs eating litters together.
Being a seasoned traveler, I was prepared for the possibility of getting scammed. But it turned out that no matter how prepared we are, there will always be a way that we can get screwed over. Sometimes we have the innate tendency to trust others and never suspect the hidden agendas. People trying to take advantage of you everywhere in the world but in India, they tried by every means. It was an incredibly exhausting way of travel.
Nicky loves historical sites and worship places and thinks that India is fascinating and magical. When he told me that he wishes to visit again and we might stay three to four weeks to really enjoy India, I was like, “What!!!???”
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